Thursday, December 31, 2009

2009的脚印快消失了!


很快的,2009就来到了最后一天!这充满甜酸苦辣的一年,让我回味无穷!不知是否有人可以发挥创意一下,把2009做成一道菜,给这美丽的2009来个谢幕宴,当作告别?听到2009收拾行李,准备离开的声音,我真的有点不舍。但是,我又不可以一味缅怀过去,这样只会让我看不见前方的石头而被它绊倒。2010已经准备接替2009的宝座了,我似乎可以听到……

老年人:唉,又老一岁了!儿子啊,我今年几岁了啊?
中年妇女:老公,我这里是不是多了条鱼尾纹啊?可恶!
中年男人:唉,新的一年,荷包又要大出血了!
年轻少女:万岁!十八岁了!我们可以为所欲为了!姐妹们,要不要一起去逛街血拼啊?
年轻少男:看!这是我的新车!酷不酷啊?要不要一起去兜兜风?
小孩子:万岁!我又大一岁了!妈咪!我长大了!你要听我的哦!
婴孩儿:hihi~babubu~kiki

新的一年,对每一个人来说都代表着不同的未来。我们似乎应该像小孩看起,他们没有烦恼,不惧怕新的一年的到来。毕竟,如果你用新的眼光、新的态度来看待新的一年,你会发现新的自己、新的未来!好了,2010已经在敲我的脑袋了!我要快乐地迎向这个未来,烦恼暂时要跟我告别。我要仰卧在2010的青草地上,仰望2010的天空,看见2010的未来!

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

门可以推,亦可以拉


无论你到任何一个地方,你都会在门前看到“推TOLAK” 或“拉TARIK”这个字,吩咐我们应该如何开这个门。其实,我们人很固执,有时习惯了的行为是怎么也改不了的。因为我们明明看见门上写着的是“拉TARIK”,我们却偏偏克制不了自己去推这把门。

其实,做父母的,有时也要懂得“门是可以拉和推”这个道理。父母有时候可能会看着孩子的心门上写着“拉TARIK”, 但父母就偏偏要把孩子的门推开。其实,父母是不是可以考虑把门拉开,这不是更容易吗?父母在教导孩子的时候,不可以只用一种方法,应该要找到孩子适合的教学方法来教导他。父母不应以自己的父母以前的教导方式来教育自己的儿女,因为那可能是不管用的。就像们一样,如果它写着“推TOLAK”,你硬是要拉也没有用!

就像刘墉所说的,“牵着孩子半辈子的父母,会被孩子拖累一辈子”,父母如果把孩子的心门打开了,孩子的门也被装得满满的了,就该把门打开,让孩子自己去寻找他的世界,让他去吧别人的门也打开。如果硬要把所有的知识倒进孩子的心门里,里面的知识也会有溢出来的时候。所以,做父母的不仅要学会如何拉门和推门,还要懂得如何开门,放手让自己的孩子走出你的手心,走向它的未来!

开场白


很多人习惯在谈天之前来一个开场白,先为自己的嘴唇和舌头做暖身操,以免待会儿话匣一开,字句像子弹一样不断射出的时候,舌头会抽筋!呵呵!其实,说好听一点,那只是寒暄几句;难听一点的话,就是兜圈子!

有些人说话的时候,会故意避开话题,带你环游了整个世界以后,才告诉你他真正的目的。他们以为这样比较好开口,其实,有时这种开场白,挺令人讨厌的!有些人则心直口快,喜欢开门见山,不喜欢唠唠叨叨地兜圈子。但有时候,心直口快也不是件好事,有时一不小心,就很容易伤了人的心。

这正好印证了“水可以载舟,亦可以覆舟”的道理。必要的寒暄例如“你好!今天天气很好!”是可以为双方在谈话之前做个小小的准备的,好让对方意识到你要和他谈天的举动。但是,多余的开场白是应该弃之于垃圾桶的,不然,和你谈天的人会觉得厌烦,觉得你的为人不坦白。

因此,下次的开场白要适可而止,不要罗罗嗦嗦!好了,我也不讲太多了,以免被人挂上“唠叨王”的名分!

一年四季在于四十秒


今天看到一则新闻,是关于一个摄影师的。他在他后院那一片地拍下了一整年四季的变化。然后,把所有的照片合成一段四十秒的影片,效果栩栩如生,就好象环境在四十秒内从冬季转换到春季,一直到秋季,又到会冬季。画面真的很美,让人有一种“年光似鸟翩翩过”的感觉。

其实,这段影片也有值得我们深思的地方。我们应该从中反省,要知道,在岁月的世界里,是没有红绿灯的!时间是从来不会停下来的,就算一刻也不会。即使你把时钟打烂了,岁月还是会随着你打烂时钟的每一分、每一秒而流失。因此,我们在做任何决定时,都应该谨慎,不然,到头来发现走错了路,也弥补不回来了。

我们应该珍惜时间。其实,回首探看,你会发现这一年来其实也是那短短的四十秒。时间真的会以一转眼的速度来前进的。2009年,真的充满了许许多多的尔虞我诈、战争纠纷,以前太平的马来西亚已经面目全非了!只希望,在这新的一年,我们会以新的态度,好好把握这短短的四十秒!

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Feliz Navidad! Merry Christmas!

圣诞快乐!今天是平安夜,希望大家都可以过个平安以及快乐的圣诞!不知道你们是否有听过这首西班牙的圣诞歌,我想大概是没有吧!今天就向你们介绍,西班牙独特的圣诞曲!

Feliz Navidad Feliz Navidad
Feliz Navidad
próspero año y felicidad

Feliz Navidad Feliz Navidad
Feliz Navidad
próspero año y felicidad

I wanna wish you a Merry Christmas
I wanna wish you a Merry Christmas
I wanna wish you a Merry Christmas
form the bottom of my heart

I wanna wish you a Merry Christmas
I wanna wish you a Merry Christmas
I wanna wish you a Merry Christmas
form the bottom of my heart

Feliz Navidad próspero año y felicidad 的意思是"Merry Christmas,and a happy New Year "

一首简单的圣诞歌!却带出了圣诞应有的味道!在此祝大家圣诞快乐!Feliz Navidad!以下是这首1圣诞歌曲的影片:

乱乱配:厨师配科学家


有没有想过,一个厨师和一个科学家结婚过后的日子会怎么样?我是个天马行空的人,所以平时发闷没事做的时候,脑子里的神经就会活跃地跳起来了!就在我考SPM的时候,我就想到了这一个有趣的话题。厨师,可以说是个感性的人;科学家,却是个实实在在理性的人。感性和理性的结合会是个怎样的结局?我们就来看看吧!

厨师会随心所欲地依着自己所认为的标准、自己的心来烹调。这样,煮出来的佳肴才会好吃!如果一味跟着食谱,煮出来的佳肴再好吃也会失去那贴贴实实的人情味。反观科学家呢,他们在做每一个实验之前都会大胆推测、细心研究,按部就班把整个实验完成。如果像厨师一样跟着自己的心来做实验,那实验成功的几率很低。

当夫妻俩要做一个决定时,做厨师的可能会说:“随便啦!”;而科学家却可能会坚持不能随便,一定要细心分析到底,才肯做出一个明智的选择。当他们发生纠纷时,就大有看头了。

厨师:你真的像猪一样笨!
科学家:根据科学研究所示,其实猪一点都不笨。你应该多阅读、多研究,不然头脑就会萎缩了!
厨师:你说什么废话!我不懂科学!
科学家:科学不是废话,而是启发文明智慧的一大步!如果没有科学,你也做不了厨师!
厨师:说什么啊?!如果不是我为你准备三餐,你还能活到今天,做你的科学家吗?!

结果,他们就会吵得没完没了。但是,如果他们互相忍让,厨师和科学家的结合也会有美丽的一面。

厨师:这枕头挺美的!
科学家:哦,它是纯正棉制的,还有国家认证,品质很好!
厨师:那就买下它吧!
科学家:好啊!这个决定一点也不马虎!

结论:只要双方肯互相容忍,即使是皇帝配贫民也不成问题!忍让是和睦共处的第一把钥匙!

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

断肠人喝断肠酒


那一天夜里,当我在为我的SPM的生物学做最后冲刺时,我才发现以前我一直都不知道的事实!以前常听人说的或是在电视看到的,都给了我一种对酒的误会。我以为酒可以让伤心欲绝的人感到片刻的兴奋,让人的心情高昂起来,因为喜宴及许许多多的Happy Hour都一定有美酒相伴。然而,我错了,实在是大错特错!

我曾尝过极小口的酒,那味道难喝极了,因此我一直以来对酒都不是很有好感!现在又发现了这个事实,对酒的兴趣更是个负数了。当我在详细阅读生物学的参考书时,我才发现,原来喝酒会让人变得更加伤心、更加绝望。那喝酒的人不是自讨苦“喝”吗?喝酒不仅不能解决当前的问题,反而还会为自己带来更多的烦恼以及更多的问题。

现在还是搞不懂为什么大喜日子都一定要有酒。是为了增加气氛?是为了迎合世俗?唉,喝酒只会把一个喜宴变成一场闹剧罢了!如果有人喝醉了,那醉酒打人、脏话连篇都是避免不了的了。为何我们要为自己带来更多的麻烦呢?人往往自相矛盾!明知喝酒不好,却偏要把自己喝得像醉酒烂泥一样!

喝酒不仅伤害身体,而且还会影响情绪,严重的话还会闹出人命呢!正所谓“借酒浇愁愁更愁”,在这里奉劝一句,赶快把酒瘾给戒了吧!

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Tagged By Richard Again


1. 被点到必填,不填代表你不尊重传给你的人和问卷。(不必给予理会,我不会在意的)
2. 请老实回答每一个问题。
3. 不得擅自涂改题目。
4. 写完后请点8位朋友,不可不点。
5. 点完后请通知那8位朋友他被点到了。
6. 那8位朋友填完问卷,必须把问卷寄回给你问卷的人。(不用寄回给我啦!)

幸福套餐 No. 1
1)你的绰号 : 大卫
2)年龄 : 17岁
3)生日 : 不方便透露
4)星座 : 天蝎座
5)兴趣 : 看电视
6)专长 : 口齿伶俐,有时还蛮迟钝的,哈哈!

幸福套餐 No. 2
1)你有没有喜欢的人 : 家人算不算,哈哈!
2)是否现在在交往 : 没有
3)现在幸福不 : 幸福,我永远相信幸福的存在
4)如果上天给你勇气,最想做什么事情 : 看看天堂的壮观场面、探索黑洞的秘密
5)如果有一天,你爱的人和你告白的话 : 顺其自然

幸福套餐 No. 3
1)点你的人是 : Richard
2)他是你的 : 朋友吧...
3)他的个性 : 够胆量、重感情
4)认识他多久 : 几个月
5)你觉得他怎样 : 热于交友
6)你想对他说什么 : 祝你一切顺利!

幸福套餐 No. 4
1)最爱的节目 : 任何连续剧
2)最爱的音乐 : 偏向宁静的音乐
3)最爱的季节 : 春天
4)最爱的卡通 : Phineas and Ferb吧...
5)最爱的人 : 家人
6)最爱的颜色 : 白色
7)最爱的国家 : 英国?不确定...
8)最爱的天气 : 晴天

幸福套餐 No. 5
1)如果上天给你三个愿望 :

i )我要无限的会成真愿望!
ii )与家人和睦相处!
iii )发大财!哈哈!

2)你是很专一的人吗 : 可能吧...
3)最深刻的回忆 : 与家人在一起的时候
4)你是个很有信心的人吗 : 有时有,有时没有...
5)你很爱微笑吗 : 可以说是喜欢
6)如果你要放弃你现在的生活, 你愿意吗 : 不愿意
7)妄想什么样的生活 : 幸福美满、无忧无虑的生活
8)是否横刀夺爱才是爱 :不是

点人 :
- Soon Yew
- Allister
- Jing Ying
- Siew Yin
- Ying Han
- Wan Rong
- Xin Di
- Yeo Yin

Tagged By Richard


被点到必填,不填代表你不尊重传给你的人和问卷(不必理会这项规矩,我不会在意的!)
(1) 请老实的回答每一个问题
(2) 不行擅自塗改題目
(3) 写完请点10位小朋友,不可不点
(4) 点完后请通知那10位小朋友他被点到了.被点了的不能再点.

1.Soon Yew
2.Allister
3.Jing Ying
4.Siew Yin
5.Mean Bei
6.Wan Rong
7.Xin Di
8.Yeo Yin
9.Ying Han
10.Zhi Kuan

01- 4号认识6号吗? : 认识
02-10号是男还是女? : 女
03- 8号的兴趣是? :不清楚...读书?哈哈!
04- 1号有没有兄弟姐妹? : 有
05- 7号姓氏? : 黄
06- 10号人缘好吗? : 应该好吧...有一班好姐妹...
O7- 4号有人追吗? : 可能有,但不知道是她追人还是人追她...
09- 3号和10号是朋友吗? : 是!很好的朋友!
10- 8号的生日是? : 自己查吧!
12- 5号读哪呢? :SMK Seksyen 4 Bandar Kinrara

13- 你怎么认识10号的? :小学认识的
14- 你跟1号的生日差几个月? : 2
15- 你和9号有出去玩过吗? :整班一起去,算不算?哈哈!
16- 你喜欢和2号聊天吗? : 喜欢啊!他还蛮风趣的!
17- 你喜欢和3号在一起吗? : 喜欢,但仅维持朋友的关系
18- 你觉得7号人怎么样? :开朗、聪明
19- 你觉得9号人怎么样? : 沉默,有点歇斯底里(开玩笑吧了,呵呵!)
20- 你爱5号吗? :朋友之间的爱


1.是谁传給你这份问卷的 :Richard
2.你们认识多久呢 : 几个月
3.你觉得他(她)对你來说很重要吗 : 朋友?重要吗?哈哈!
4.你与他(她)的关系是 :可以说是朋友吧!
5.你覺得他(她)的個性如何 : 很够胆、重感情
6.请问他(她)的兴趣是 : 打机?不确定...

問:當你在更衣室沖凉,门忽然被打开了你会
答:尖声大叫?电视都是这么做的!哈哈!

問:海中忽然大浪來襲后你发现比基尼小姐上身泳裝被沖掉了你会
答:大浪来袭前,早就跑了,难道在哪里等死吗?哈哈!

問:去海边玩会使用咩交通工具
答:爸爸的车吧!

問:你突然发现沒帶泳裝泳衣你会買吗
答:不会,最多不是不下水!

問:回去时发现有其他遊客手机沒拿你会觉得是哪牌子的
答:Sony Ericsson

問:海边对你來说是
答:休闲的好地方...还有可爱的海龟!

問:看到镜子会不由自主的向前吗
答:会吧...

問:经常用洗面乳吗
答:没用过!

問:说到自恋会想到谁
答:Kah Heng...不知道哦...

問:有人说该減肥了你会
答:等有人说时才算...

問:自恋適合你吗
答:不适合吧...

我和你在圣诞节有个约会

说快不快,又到了普天同庆的圣诞节了!这个月的25日,如果你还在犹豫如何度过一个充满意义的圣诞节,不如到我的教会“喜信堂”来庆祝。当天除了有悦耳的圣诞歌,还会有一出精彩的圣诞舞台剧“弥赛亚”!我们的教会也将会派发礼物给所有的出席者!

圣诞舞台剧详情如下:

《弥赛亚》圣诞节舞台剧
日期:12月25日
时间:10.00am 和 3.30pm
地点:八打灵喜信堂 Glad Tidings Assembly of God, Jalan Gasing, Petaling Jaya.

就在上个星期日,“弥赛亚”这部舞台剧也被刊登在星洲日报!这部圣诞舞台剧的工作人员也接受了aiFM和988 DJ的访问!这是你绝对不容许错过的精彩舞台剧!以下是这出圣诞舞台剧的两场预告片:





千万不要错过这千载难逢的机会!记得咯,这个圣诞,我约定你了,到时一定要来哦!

欲知更多详情,请浏览以下网址:
http://www.themessiahdrama.blogspot.com/

圣诞与冬至的结合

早来的圣诞
上个星期五,我就和教会的小组一起庆祝了圣诞。我们每年都一样,会在圣诞前一个星期五,聚在一起,庆祝圣诞节。今年我们的圣诞是以圆点和线条为主题,称为“Dots and Stripes Christmas Party”。我们每位都很响应主题,把有圆点和线条的衣给穿上了。

节目一开始时,主持人讲了一连窜的笑话,笑破我肚皮了。玩了场破冰游戏后,我们便唱起了圣诞歌。节目的高潮是短短的一出话剧。故事讲述一千年以后的世界,住着了许许多多的机器人。他们都活在别人的眼光下,活在别人给予的“叉叉”和“very good”的评语下。藉着一个平凡机器人的故事,启发了我们,劝我们不要被世俗的眼光给压倒,应该站立起来,活出属于自己的生命。他们还解释说,我们每个人都是不一样的,其中包括指纹、眼瞳和舌苔的纹路。因此,我们每个都是独一无二的,是频临绝种的生物哦!

最后,我们吃了美味的圣诞大餐,交换了礼物,又是一个圆满的圣诞。这个圣诞节,我还会到我的教会“喜信堂”观赏圣诞舞台剧“弥赛亚”,非常精彩哦!你也一定要来,约定你咯!

冬至

今天就是华人最重视的日子之一,冬至了!冬至其实和许多华人的日子一样,旨在庆祝团圆。汤圆汤圆,团团圆圆,多好听啊!

原本妈妈打算不要煮汤圆了,因为医生说她不能吃糯米。但是,在我们的要求下,妈妈还是煮了汤圆。今年的冬至跟往年不一样。以往,汤圆都是我妈妈一手包办的;今年,我也参与了汤圆的准备过程。首先,我们把花生给炒香了,这活儿一点都不简单,可是把我的手给累死了!过后,我就帮妈妈把糯米团搓成一粒粒的汤圆,我还搓了几个不同形状的汤圆出来。接着,当我把一粒粒的青色汤圆倒进散发着浓郁斑斓和姜味的糖水里时,等待我的只有一粒粒浮上糖水面的汤圆。我不禁感到神奇万分!

看着一碗满满的汤圆,心里的感慨油然而生。我拿起一粒圆圆的汤圆,醮上花生和糖的神秘结合,吃进口里。我吃的不是汤圆,而是幸福。

Thursday, December 17, 2009

圣诞树的随想


还有短短的一个星期,耶稣的生日又要到了!如果只能要拿着蛋糕,插上蜡烛为耶稣庆祝生日的话,看来普通大小的蛋糕恐怕不行,因为那蛋糕上可是要插上两千多只美丽的蜡烛呢!圣诞节,可是普天同庆的日子啊!现在的年轻人,还没搞懂圣诞节的意义,也开始盲目地随波逐流,庆祝期圣诞来了。这好比是拿着蛋糕唱生日歌,却不知道主人是谁,这样的庆祝有意义吗?

往年的圣诞节,多在教堂和百货公司里度过的,今年也应该没有例外。每次圣诞前夕,我们一家也会与其他的弟兄姐妹聚在一个屋檐下,提早庆祖圣诞。现在想起小时候的自己,可说是又气又喜。每每到别人的家,看到耸立在客厅里的圣诞树时,我都会不由自主地跑去圣诞树跟前。然后,手很不听话地开始触碰圣诞树上的吊饰,还的父母提心吊胆,深怕我把别人的圣诞树给毁了。看到圣诞树下的“礼物”,我还曾经天真地以为那里面真的有东西的呢!直到童话梦一破,我才知道那里面确实有“东西”,只是那东西是毫无意义的纸盒或棉花。

慢慢地长大了,我还是依然迷恋着圣诞树。每逢圣诞节,我都会嚷着爸妈,要他们买圣诞树给我。父母知道我永远都是三分钟热度,所以从来都没有答应我的要求。如今看到杂志或电视上的圣诞树,心还是蠢蠢欲动,只是理智的念头总会把这美丽的幻想给打得粉碎。曾几何时,我希望要自己是个小孩,可以随心所欲地东摸摸、西摸摸那美丽的圣诞树。

希望大家过个有意义的圣诞节,为圣诞真正的主人而庆祝,而不是为自己庆祝!圣诞节快乐!美丽克里斯玛斯(Merry Christmas)!

备注:如果明天晚上(18/12/2009)有空,不妨来参加我小组的圣诞派对,只需带上十令吉的礼物(做交换礼物的用途)和五令吉(食物的费用)。有兴趣者可以通知我,会为你们安排交通!

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

迟来的“假期咯”


终于考完SPM了,总算可以松一口气!终于了解到“羡慕”这两个字是什么意思了。看见每个莘莘学子们都开怀大笑地迎接学校假期的来临时,我们中五生却要闷在家里死啃书,真是一个在天堂,一个在地狱啊!有迟来的假期都好过没有,只可惜好景不常,很快就要有另一个转折点了。

原本想在假期进行的活动,现在却必须像“Nescafe 3合1”,把所有的计划都浓缩在一起。原本打算的钢琴课程看来也不成了,因为一月可能就要生活在私立大专的世界里了。但是,我还是会好好利用这短暂的假期。现在正在读着被“杯葛”在书橱里已有一年之久的《哈利波特与死亡圣杯》,是不是难以想象。我也在计划着参加红蜻蜓出版社所创办的比赛,不知是否有多余的时间。

中学生涯可算是告一段落,可是,又不知道多久才能使“天下的筵席”再次重聚。难道友情会随着时间的海浪而流逝吗?现在还只是个未知数。只能希望和朋友能再见,再次相见。最近这几天都为升学的是而烦恼,看来毕业以后的生活也不是那么如意。唉,所谓“贫人愁贫贫不去,病人愁病病不疗”,我也管不了那么多了!

好好地过完这短暂的假期,就心满意足了!假期,我来咯!

备注:计划了在下星期一(21/12/09)于Sunway Pyramid 来个小聚会。有兴趣者,请在10点早上于McDonald集合!到时间!

Monday, December 14, 2009

Jung Typology Test


I got this test from a psychologist in IMU. This is my result:

Your Type is
INFJ
Strength of the preferences :
Introverted 67%
Intuitive 12%
Feeling 38%
Judging 11%

Qualitative analysis of your type formula

You are:

  • distinctively expressed introvert
  • slightly expressed intuitive personality
  • moderately expressed feeling personality
  • slightly expressed judging personality
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Introverted iNtuitive Feeling Judging
by Joe Butt
Profile: INFJ
Revision: 3.01
Date of Revision: 6 Mar 2005

Beneath the quiet exterior, INFJs hold deep convictions about the weightier matters of life. Those who are activists -- INFJs gravitate toward such a role -- are there for the cause, not for personal glory or political power.

INFJs are champions of the oppressed and downtrodden. They often are found in the wake of an emergency, rescuing those who are in acute distress. INFJs may fantasize about getting revenge on those who victimize the defenseless. The concept of 'poetic justice' is appealing to the INFJ.

"There's something rotten in Denmark." Accurately suspicious about others' motives, INFJs are not easily led. These are the people that you can rarely fool any of the time. Though affable and sympathetic to most, INFJs are selective about their friends. Such a friendship is a symbiotic bond that transcends mere words.

INFJs have a knack for fluency in language and facility in communication. In addition, nonverbal sensitivity enables the INFJ to know and be known by others intimately.

Writing, counseling, public service and even politics are areas where INFJs frequently find their niche.

Functional Analysis:
Introverted iNtuition
Introverted intuitives, INFJs enjoy a greater clarity of perception of inner, unconscious processes than all but their INTJ cousins. Just as SP types commune with the object and "live in the here and now" of the physical world, INFJs readily grasp the hidden psychological stimuli behind the more observable dynamics of behavior and affect. Their amazing ability to deduce the inner workings of the mind, will and emotions of others gives INFJs their reputation as prophets and seers. Unlike the confining, routinizing nature of introverted sensing, introverted intuition frees this type to act insightfully and spontaneously as unique solutions arise on an event by event basis.
Extraverted Feeling
Extraverted feeling, the auxiliary deciding function, expresses a range of emotion and opinions of, for and about people. INFJs, like many other FJ types, find themselves caught between the desire to express their wealth of feelings and moral conclusions about the actions and attitudes of others, and the awareness of the consequences of unbridled candor. Some vent the attending emotions in private, to trusted allies. Such confidants are chosen with care, for INFJs are well aware of the treachery that can reside in the hearts of mortals. This particular combination of introverted intuition and extraverted feeling provides INFJs with the raw material from which perceptive counselors are shaped.
Introverted Thinking
The INFJ's thinking is introverted, turned toward the subject. Perhaps it is when the INFJ's thinking function is operative that he is most aloof. A comrade might surmise that such detachment signals a disillusionment, that she has also been found lacking by the sardonic eye of this one who plumbs the depths of the human spirit. Experience suggests that such distancing is merely an indication that the seer is hard at work and focusing energy into this less efficient tertiary function.
Extraverted Sensing
INFJs are twice blessed with clarity of vision, both internal and external. Just as they possess inner vision which is drawn to the forms of the unconscious, they also have external sensing perception which readily takes hold of worldly objects. Sensing, however, is the weakest of the INFJ's arsenal and the most vulnerable. INFJs, like their fellow intuitives, may be so absorbed in intuitive perceiving that they become oblivious to physical reality. The INFJ under stress may fall prey to various forms of immediate gratification. Awareness of extraverted sensing is probably the source of the "SP wannabe" side of INFJs. Many yearn to live spontaneously; it's not uncommon for INFJ actors to take on an SP (often ESTP) role.
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Introverted iNtuiting Feeling Judging
by Marina Margaret Heiss

INFJs are distinguished by both their complexity of character and the unusual range and depth of their talents. Strongly humanitarian in outlook, INFJs tend to be idealists, and because of their J preference for closure and completion, they are generally "doers" as well as dreamers. This rare combination of vision and practicality often results in INFJs taking a disproportionate amount of responsibility in the various causes to which so many of them seem to be drawn.

INFJs are deeply concerned about their relations with individuals as well as the state of humanity at large. They are, in fact, sometimes mistaken for extroverts because they appear so outgoing and are so genuinely interested in people -- a product of the Feeling function they most readily show to the world. On the contrary, INFJs are true introverts, who can only be emotionally intimate and fulfilled with a chosen few from among their long-term friends, family, or obvious "soul mates." While instinctively courting the personal and organizational demands continually made upon them by others, at intervals INFJs will suddenly withdraw into themselves, sometimes shutting out even their intimates. This apparent paradox is a necessary escape valve for them, providing both time to rebuild their depleted resources and a filter to prevent the emotional overload to which they are so susceptible as inherent "givers." As a pattern of behavior, it is perhaps the most confusing aspect of the enigmatic INFJ character to outsiders, and hence the most often misunderstood -- particularly by those who have little experience with this rare type.

Due in part to the unique perspective produced by this alternation between detachment and involvement in the lives of the people around them, INFJs may well have the clearest insights of all the types into the motivations of others, for good and for evil. The most important contributing factor to this uncanny gift, however, are the empathic abilities often found in Fs, which seem to be especially heightened in the INFJ type (possibly by the dominance of the introverted N function).

This empathy can serve as a classic example of the two-edged nature of certain INFJ talents, as it can be strong enough to cause discomfort or pain in negative or stressful situations. More explicit inner conflicts are also not uncommon in INFJs; it is possible to speculate that the causes for some of these may lie in the specific combinations of preferences which define this complex type. For instance, there can sometimes be a "tug-of-war" between NF vision and idealism and the J practicality that urges compromise for the sake of achieving the highest priority goals. And the I and J combination, while perhaps enhancing self-awareness, may make it difficult for INFJs to articulate their deepest and most convoluted feelings.

Usually self-expression comes more easily to INFJs on paper, as they tend to have strong writing skills. Since in addition they often possess a strong personal charisma, INFJs are generally well-suited to the "inspirational" professions such as teaching (especially in higher education) and religious leadership. Psychology and counseling are other obvious choices, but overall, INFJs can be exceptionally difficult to pigeonhole by their career paths. Perhaps the best example of this occurs in the technical fields. Many INFJs perceive themselves at a disadvantage when dealing with the mystique and formality of "hard logic", and in academic terms this may cause a tendency to gravitate towards the liberal arts rather than the sciences. However, the significant minority of INFJs who do pursue studies and careers in the latter areas tend to be as successful as their T counterparts, as it is *iNtuition* -- the dominant function for the INFJ type -- which governs the ability to understand abstract theory and implement it creatively.

In their own way, INFJs are just as much "systems builders" as are INTJs; the difference lies in that most INFJ "systems" are founded on human beings and human values, rather than information and technology. Their systems may for these reasons be conceptually "blurrier" than analogous NT ones, harder to measure in strict numerical terms, and easier to take for granted -- yet it is these same underlying reasons which make the resulting contributions to society so vital and profound.

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